Dream Journal by Neptune Gal
I dreamed that I was in a teahouse from the early Republican era, dressed in traditional fengxian attire, having a meal with a young man. I felt like he might like me because he was very attentive and considerate in hosting me.
The teahouse was extravagant and packed with people. The young man seemed about 28 years old. I thought to myself, "Wow! He's so young!" But I couldn't figure out why he would like me.
My child came over to join us for a brief chat and mentioned being 26 years old. At that moment, it hit me, "What? Am I really that old?" But I didn't feel old at all!
Then I thought, "So this young man should probably be interested in someone my child's age, not me. He shouldn't like me; he should like my child." I felt a little embarrassed by my moment of self-delusion and concluded that he must be interested in someone from my child's generation.
After my child left, however, the young man seemed genuinely happy to have the chance to dine and chat with me alone.
Later, his family joined us. One woman in particular seemed somewhat hostile toward me at first, repeatedly questioning how we knew each other. But I got the sense she recognized me because she kept talking about her current situation and asking for my advice and opinions.
I wasn’t entirely sure what role I played in this dream. I felt like I was a wise woman of some kind.
夢見我像是在一個民初時代的酒樓,穿著鳳仙裝,跟一位年輕男子吃飯。我覺得他好像喜歡我,因為他很體貼在招待我。
這是一間華麗的酒樓,座無虛席。這男生很年輕,好像 28 歲。我心想「哇!好年輕喔!」可是我不知道他為什麼喜歡我。
我的孩子過來找我,和我們聊了一下。孩子說他 26 歲,此時我突然驚覺「蛤?我這麼老了?」可是我並沒有覺得自己很老啊!
我接著想:「所以這個男生應該是喜歡我小孩這個歲數的人才對。他不應該喜歡我,應該是喜歡我的孩子。」當下我為我的自作多情感到有點尷尬,認定他應該是喜歡我小孩那一輩的人才對。
後來我的孩子離開,可是我覺得這男生看來好像很開心,因為他可以單獨跟我吃飯聊天。
接著他家人來了,加入我們。我覺得那個女人一開始對我還有些敵意,不停追問我們是怎麼認識的。但我覺得她好像認識我,因為她一直跟我聊說她目前的狀況,問我的意見和看法。
我不是很清楚我在夢裡是什麼樣的角色,感覺像是一個有智慧的女人吧!