Dreamt that I was getting married, to a friend named Wayne whom I didn't know well. As the wedding approached, I felt increasingly anxious and worried. His mother came to see me, but only exchanged simple greetings without saying much.
Being an opera performer, I was juggling rehearsals for "Miss Saigon" and another play. Amidst a mix of unsettling emotions, during rehearsals, I found myself crying backstage, feeling deeply sorrowful. Others wondered if I was being overly dramatic or theatrical.
Confiding in friends, I confessed my uncertainty about why I had agreed to the marriage. They comforted me, saying that life is like a drama, and advised me not to overthink it.
While backstage, munching on my favorite strawberry gum, the more I thought, the more unsettled I became, and tears started flowing again.
Quietly, Wayne approached me and said, "I heard you're feeling anxious." I replied, "Yes!" and asked him about his certainty regarding the wedding.
With a calm voice, he said he knew what he wanted and was sure of his choice. He also told me that his favorite gum was another kind, white mint flavor. He asked if I wanted to try it, and I agreed.
Then I told him I still had two pieces of strawberry gum, which I chew when I'm feeling down. He chuckled, saying that regardless of his mood, he always sticks to his white mint gum.
I noticed he had four white gums. He gave me two and took my two strawberry ones.
Wayne continued, saying that from now on, whether happy or sad, he had figured out how to live with me. I asked about his mother, and he said there were no issues, his mom would listen to him, and I shouldn't worry.
Wayne smiled at me and said, "We'll be just fine." Suddenly, my heart felt calm. I thought, "Then let's get ready for the wedding!"
Then, the scene transitions to another setting, perhaps with reporters or friends interviewing me about my decision to get married...
夢見我要結婚了,對象是一位不熟的朋友 Wayne。距離婚禮的時間越近,就越是感到不安與擔心。他母親有來看我,但只是簡單打招呼,沒有講什麼。
我的工作是歌劇演員,有參與西貢小姐與另一齣戲劇的演出。因為混雜著許多不安的情緒,當進行排演時,我在後台傷心地大哭,大家覺得我是不是太人戲或太戲劇化了。
我跟朋友說我真的不知為何會答應結婚。他們安慰我說人生如戲吧!要我不要想太多。
我在後台吃著喜愛的草莓口香糖,越想越不安,又開始哭了起來。
Wayne 悄悄來到我身邊,「我聽說你感到不安。」我說「對啊!」並反問他對這婚禮的確定性。
他用平穩的聲音說他知道自己要什麼,也很確定自己的選擇。他還告訴我,他最喜歡吃的口香糖,是另一種白色薄荷口味口香糖。問我要不要試試,我說好。
然後我告訴他,我還有兩顆草莓口香糖,說我心情不好的時候,就是吃這個。他笑說不論他心情好與壞,都是吃他那個白色薄荷口香糖。
我看到他有四顆白色口香糖。他把兩顆給我,然後就拿走我的兩顆草莓口香糖。
Wayne 接著說,從今以後不論開心不開心,他都已經想好要怎麼跟我過日子。我問他那媽媽那邊怎麼樣,他說沒問題,媽媽會聽他的意見,要我不要擔心。
Wayne 微笑看著我說「我們會好好的過日子。」突然間,我的心好像安定下來。 我想:那就準備結婚啦!
然後切換到另一個場景。大概是有記者或是有朋友訪問我,對這次決定結婚的看法...
Ending 1 - A Celebratory Performance
After your heart-to-heart with Wayne, you feel inspired to incorporate your love for opera into the wedding ceremony. The wedding turns into a beautiful and memorable celebration of love, music, and unity, with you and Wayne performing a duet for your guests.
Ending 2 - A Surprise Family Reunion
At the wedding, Wayne's mother approaches you with a warm smile and an apology for her initial distance. She shares a story about her own wedding day jitters and offers you a family heirloom as a symbol of her acceptance and support. This gesture brings both families closer together.
Ending 3 - A Whimsical Adventure
As you and Wayne prepare to exchange vows, the scene transforms into a whimsical dreamscape. You embark on an adventure through your favorite opera settings, overcoming challenges and reaffirming your love for each other. Upon awakening, you feel an even deeper connection and certainty in your relationship.
Ending 4 - A Time Travel Twist
During the wedding ceremony, you're suddenly transported back in time to the moment when you first met Wayne. With the knowledge and understanding you've gained from the dream, you experience your relationship's progression with renewed appreciation and insight.
Ending 5 - A Joint Interview
After the wedding, you and Wayne participate in an interview together, discussing your love story and decision to get married. This experience not only strengthens your bond but also serves as an inspiration to others facing similar doubts or challenges in their relationships.
Each of these alternative endings provides a unique conclusion to your dream, further exploring themes of emotional vulnerability, decision-making, and the importance of communication within the context of your marriage to Wayne and your interactions with friends and family.
Your dream explores themes of emotional vulnerability, decision-making, and the importance of communication within the context of your marriage to Wayne and your conversations with friends and family. Here's a brief interpretation of the key elements:
Marriage to Wayne: The marriage symbolizes a commitment or important decision you're considering in your waking life, which could be causing uncertainty or anxiety.
Wayne's Mother: Her brief appearance represents the potential influence of others' opinions on your decisions and the importance of open communication with those involved in the situation.
Opera Performances: Your involvement in different plays signifies the balancing of various responsibilities and emotional experiences in your life.
Crying and Emotional Outbursts: Your emotional reactions reflect your inner struggles and fears surrounding the decision or commitment you're facing in your waking life.
Friends' Comfort and Advice: The support and guidance from friends represent the importance of seeking counsel and maintaining perspective during challenging times.
Strawberry and White Mint Gum: The gum symbolizes coping mechanisms or personal preferences in dealing with emotions. Wayne's preference for white mint gum, regardless of his mood, represents stability and confidence in his decision-making process.
Exchanging Gum: The exchange of gum between you and Wayne signifies compromise, understanding, and openness to each other's perspectives, leading to a sense of calmness and reassurance.
Overall, your dream seems to emphasize the importance of acknowledging and sharing your emotions, seeking advice from trusted friends, and maintaining open communication with those involved in significant decisions or commitments in your life. By doing so, you can find balance, understanding, and reassurance amidst uncertainty and emotional turmoil.