In my dream, I was at a nightclub, waiting for the evening's events to start. Since I arrived early, I grabbed a magazine and lay on the couch to read.
I felt someone staring at me. I turned around, and there was a woman with her hair tied back. I exclaimed, "Captain" (a friend I no longer keep in touch with), but it wasn't her; it was Jessica, a friend of Captain's. I prepared to get up and greet her, but she just walked away without acknowledging me. In real life, since I stopped seeing Captain, her friends have also kept their distance from me.
Jessica seemed to go tell their friends to change locations, indicating they didn't want to see me. Honestly, I felt like if everyone wanted to have fun separately, it wouldn't matter much to me.
Later, the scene changed, and I was at Home Depot with my husband. He wanted to buy sod to redo the backyard, but I was a bit lazy and felt it wasn't necessary.
Initially, we were about to leave, but my husband persisted and went back to ask about prices. We needed a large quantity, but they didn't have enough in stock, so the staff suggested another type of sod that we could combine. In the end, in my dream, I helped negotiate a good price for my husband with them.
Then the scene shifted again, and I was on a bus. I needed to go to the area around Taipei 101 and decided to rest my eyes for a moment. When I opened them again, I realized the bus was getting farther and farther from Taipei 101, heading towards Taipei Station instead. I thought to myself, "Oh no! Maybe I overslept and missed my stop. The bus has reached the end and is turning back now."
The bus became crowded, and a lady stood near me in the aisle. I thought to ask her to move a bit because it was very crowded. Part of me was annoyed because I was almost home, but now I had to go around again with the bus.
Next, the scene changed, and I was at a bakery. There was a boss and his wife, along with their daughter, who gave me three egg yolk pastries.
They told me they were three different flavors. I was delighted and thought I could take them home for my daughter to enjoy. However, all three pastries looked the same, and I wondered how I could figure out which sesame flavor my daughter liked.
I wanted to ask them, but they were in a hurry to attend a friend's wedding banquet and were closing up shop. Anyway, they insisted I take these three egg yolk pastries with me.
夢見我在一個夜店，等待晚上的活動開始。因為我比較早到，我拿了一本雜誌，躺在沙發上看。
我感覺有人盯著我。我轉過頭，那女子綁著馬尾。我喊了一聲 "班長" (一個不再往來的朋友)，但其實不是，是班長的朋友 Jessica。我準備起身和她打招呼，她直接走開，沒有要理我的意思。現實生活中，自從我和班長不再往來後，她的朋友的確也和我保持距離。
Jessica 好像是去跟她們的朋友說換地方，看來她們沒有想要看到我。其實我倒覺得大家要玩就分開玩，也不會怎麼樣。
後來場景變成我跟老公來到 Home Depot。老公想要買草皮來重整後院，我有點懶，覺得沒有必要。
本來我們要離開，但老公不死心，又跑回去問價錢。只是我們需要的量有點大，但現場庫存不夠，服務人員推薦我們買另一款草皮合併用。總之，我在夢裡幫老公和他們殺了個好價格。
接著場景又變成我在坐公車。我要到底站台北 101 大樓，想說瞇一下眼睛休息。再張開眼，發現公車怎麼離台北 101 越來越遠，變成往台北車站方向去。我就想說：「啊！可能是我剛剛睡過頭錯過站。公車已經到了底站，現在回頭開了。」
整個公車變得很多人，有一位太太站在我前方的縫隙邊。我想說讓她站一下，因為人實在很多。一方面還是懊惱，我本來都要到家了，現在又要跟著公車再繞一圈。
然後場景又變成我來到一家麵包店。有老闆跟老闆娘，還有他們的女兒，送給我三顆蛋黃酥。
他們跟我說是三種不同口味。我心裡很歡喜，想說可以拿回家給女兒吃。但三顆看起來都一樣，我要怎麼找出女兒喜歡的芝麻口味呢？
我想問他們，但他們要去參加朋友的喜宴，趕著打烊。反正就是要把這三顆蛋黃酥給我。
這個夢似乎反映了未解決的情感、個人界限和日常擔憂的混合體，將它們混合成可以以不同方式解釋的不同場景。這是一個可能的細分：
1. 夜店和老朋友
環境：夜店的環境暗示著社交，但你獨自一人閱讀，這可能象徵著你內省的天性，或等待社交生活中某件事開始的想法。
Jessica 和班長：看到一個被你誤認為是你的老朋友（班長）的人，可能表明對這段友誼的感情尚未解決。Jessica 在沒有打招呼的情況下走開，可能象徵著你和你的老朋友圈之間出現的距離和脫節。在現實生活中，他們的離開似乎與你在夢中感受到的情緒距離相呼應。
解釋：夜店場景可能反映了與過去的社會聯繫的孤立或脫離的感覺。你的反應——感覺分道揚鑣是可以的——表明你已經接受了這種改變，但這個夢強調了一些揮之不去的想法或對此的不適。
2. Home Depot 和後院
背景：Home Depot 是一家與裝修和家居專案相關的商店，象徵著致力於生活中實用的事物。
丈夫的堅持：你丈夫想要買草皮的願望和你的無意願，可能反映了現實生活中對家庭優先事項或努力的看法差異。他的堅持可能象徵著一種有人在推動你尚未完全投入的事情的感覺。
解釋：這部分可能代表需要平衡共同的責任，或在你們的關係中更好地溝通，特別是關於你不太熱衷的任務或決定。夢中你的談判技巧，顯示你是一個解決問題的人，即使不情願，也會找到實際的解決方案。
3. 搭乘公車和誤站
背景：搭乘巴士通常代表你生活中正在經歷的一段旅程或過程。錯過站點可能象徵著你感覺自己沒有到達你想去的地方，或者你正在偏離路線。
擁擠的公共汽車和煩惱：擁擠的公共汽車和不得不再次繞圈的挫敗感，可能反映了因外部環境而不知所措或不便的感覺，甚至可能是對日常生活的挫敗感或感覺被困住了。
解釋：這種情況可能代表你生活中的不確定或沮喪的感覺——就像你試圖達到一個目標（家，象徵舒適和穩定），但感覺有些事情造成了延誤或障礙。它還可能表明你需要更多地控制自己的個人方向。
4. 麵包和蛋黃酥
背景：麵包店代表營養以及給予或接受某物的行為。糕點象徵著獎勵、禮物或機會。
三個糕點和不確定性：收到三個看似相同的糕點，但想找出女兒最喜歡哪一個，可能象徵著為所愛的人提供食物的願望，但不確定如何最好地滿足他們的需求或偏好。麵包店老闆匆忙離開，可能像徵著你感覺時間緊迫或對做出決定感到焦慮。
解析：夢的這一部分可能反映了對照顧的擔憂，無論是對你的家人還是對他人。糕點的相似性和你在選擇時的不確定性，可能象徵著了解如何為你關心的人提供“正確”的東西的挑戰，即使選項表面上看起來相同。
整體解讀
這個夢似乎是與社會脫節、日常生活中的實際擔憂，以及試圖滿足他人需求的感覺的混合體。
在情感上，它涉及過去的友誼以及你如何繼續前進，儘管並非沒有一些未解決的想法。
相對而言，它強調了與你丈夫的動態，你可能對某些項目或任務感到不願意，但仍然支持他。
就個人而言，搭乘公車意味著一種偏離軌道或不確定的感覺，而麵包店代表了你的養育本能和照顧家人的願望，即使不確定如何照顧。
這個夢可能會促使你反思你的人際關係（老朋友、你的丈夫）、你的生活方向，以及你作為照顧者或提供者的角色。
1. Reconnection and Reconciliation
As Jessica walks away in the nightclub, you decide to follow her and start a conversation. You explain how things have changed with Monitor but express that you’d still like to maintain a friendship with her. Jessica, initially distant, softens and admits that she missed hanging out with you but wasn’t sure how to approach the situation. You both end up chatting and laughing, deciding to meet up for coffee another day, leaving the club with a sense of relief and closure.
2. Empowerment and Independence
After Jessica walks away, instead of feeling ignored, you focus on enjoying the evening for yourself. You end up striking a conversation with new people at the club who share your interests. The dream shifts as you embrace your independence, and the next scene in Home Depot changes: this time, you're the one leading the decision on what to do with the backyard, confidently choosing a more creative landscaping idea. You and your husband work together harmoniously, feeling fulfilled by the shared project. The dream ends with a sense of empowerment and personal growth.
3. Reaching Your Destination
On the bus, when you realize you’ve gone past your stop, instead of getting frustrated, you calmly press the stop button and get off at the next station. As you step off the bus, you discover a beautiful, unexpected garden path leading you straight home — a shortcut you hadn’t noticed before. Walking along the path, you feel peaceful, realizing that even when things seem off course, life has a way of bringing you exactly where you need to be. You arrive home feeling grateful for the journey and the unexpected discovery.
4. Sweet Surprise
At the bakery, when you receive the three egg yolk pastries, the boss’s daughter whispers to you before they leave: “The sesame one is marked with a tiny star on the bottom.” You smile, relieved, and take the pastries home. When your daughter tries the sesame pastry, she absolutely loves it, and the moment becomes a sweet bonding experience between you two. As you watch her enjoying the treat, you realize that sometimes even small gestures, like figuring out her favorite pastry, are deeply fulfilling.
5. New Perspective on Priorities
Back in Home Depot, when your husband returns to negotiate, you have a change of heart. You realize that working together on the backyard might be a chance to spend quality time and create something beautiful together. You join him in selecting the sod, and you both find a perfect match. When you return home, the dream ends with the two of you happily planting the new grass, sharing laughter, and feeling connected through the project. The backyard becomes a symbol of teamwork and growth in your relationship.
Each of these endings offers a new resolution: whether it's reconciling old friendships, embracing independence, finding unexpected opportunities, or nurturing your relationships. They all provide closure or growth, depending on the message you want the dream to convey.
This dream seems to reflect a mixture of unresolved feelings, personal boundaries, and everyday concerns, blending them into different scenarios that can be interpreted in various ways. Here’s a possible breakdown:
1. Nightclub and Old Friend
Setting: The nightclub setting suggests socializing, yet you’re alone, reading, which might symbolize your introspective nature or the idea of waiting for something to begin in your social life.
Jessica and Monitor: Seeing someone you mistake for your old friend (Monitor) could indicate unresolved feelings about that friendship. Jessica walking away without acknowledging you may symbolize the distance and disconnect that have emerged between you and your old circle of friends. In real life, their withdrawal seems to echo the emotional distance you feel in the dream.
Interpretation: The nightclub scenario might reflect feelings of isolation or detachment from past social connections. Your reaction — feeling it’s okay to go separate ways — suggests you've come to terms with the change, but the dream is highlighting some lingering thoughts or discomfort about it.
2. Home Depot and the Backyard
Setting: Home Depot, a store associated with improvement and home projects, symbolizes working on something practical in your life.
Husband's Persistence: Your husband's desire to buy sod and your reluctance may reflect a real-life difference in opinion about household priorities or efforts. His persistence could symbolize a feeling of someone pushing for something you aren’t fully invested in.
Interpretation: This segment may represent a need to balance shared responsibilities or communicate better in your relationship, especially regarding tasks or decisions you feel less enthusiastic about. Your negotiation skills in the dream suggest you're a problem-solver who finds practical solutions, even when reluctant.
3. Bus Ride and Missing the Stop
Setting: The bus ride often represents a journey or process you're going through in life. Missing your stop could symbolize feeling like you're not quite where you want to be or that you’re going off-course.
Crowded Bus and Annoyance: The crowded bus and frustration at having to loop around again could reflect feelings of being overwhelmed or inconvenienced by external circumstances, perhaps even frustration with routine or feeling stuck.
Interpretation: This scenario might represent feelings of uncertainty or frustration in your life — like you're trying to reach a goal (home, symbolizing comfort and stability) but feel like something is causing delays or obstacles. It may also point to feeling like you need more control over your personal direction.
4. Bakery and Egg Yolk Pastries
Setting: The bakery represents nourishment and the act of giving or receiving something. The pastries symbolize rewards, gifts, or opportunities.
Three Pastries and Uncertainty: Receiving three seemingly identical pastries but wanting to figure out which is your daughter’s favorite could symbolize a desire to provide for loved ones, but feeling unsure of how to best meet their needs or preferences. The bakery owners’ hurry to leave might symbolize your feeling pressed for time or anxious about making decisions.
Interpretation: This part of the dream could reflect concerns about caretaking, whether for your family or for others. The similarity of the pastries and your uncertainty in choosing could symbolize the challenge of knowing how to provide the "right" thing for those you care about, even when options seem the same on the surface.
Overall Interpretation
The dream seems to be a mix of social disconnection, practical concerns in your daily life, and a sense of trying to meet the needs of others.
Emotionally, it touches on past friendships and how you’ve moved on, though not without some unresolved thoughts.
Relationally, it highlights a dynamic with your husband where you might feel reluctant about certain projects or tasks but still support him.
Personally, the bus ride suggests a feeling of being off-course or uncertain, and the bakery represents your nurturing instincts and desire to care for your family, even when unsure how.
The dream might be prompting you to reflect on your relationships (old friends, your husband), your direction in life, and your role as a caregiver or provider.