In my dream, I was at a nightclub, waiting for the evening's events to start. Since I arrived early, I grabbed a magazine and lay on the couch to read.
I felt someone staring at me. I turned around, and there was a woman with her hair tied back. I exclaimed, "Captain" (a friend I no longer keep in touch with), but it wasn't her; it was Jessica, a friend of Captain's. I prepared to get up and greet her, but she just walked away without acknowledging me. In real life, since I stopped seeing Captain, her friends have also kept their distance from me.
Jessica seemed to go tell their friends to change locations, indicating they didn't want to see me. Honestly, I felt like if everyone wanted to have fun separately, it wouldn't matter much to me.
Later, the scene changed, and I was at Home Depot with my husband. He wanted to buy sod to redo the backyard, but I was a bit lazy and felt it wasn't necessary.
Initially, we were about to leave, but my husband persisted and went back to ask about prices. We needed a large quantity, but they didn't have enough in stock, so the staff suggested another type of sod that we could combine. In the end, in my dream, I helped negotiate a good price for my husband with them.
Then the scene shifted again, and I was on a bus. I needed to go to the area around Taipei 101 and decided to rest my eyes for a moment. When I opened them again, I realized the bus was getting farther and farther from Taipei 101, heading towards Taipei Station instead. I thought to myself, "Oh no! Maybe I overslept and missed my stop. The bus has reached the end and is turning back now."
The bus became crowded, and a lady stood near me in the aisle. I thought to ask her to move a bit because it was very crowded. Part of me was annoyed because I was almost home, but now I had to go around again with the bus.
Next, the scene changed, and I was at a bakery. There was a boss and his wife, along with their daughter, who gave me three egg yolk pastries.
They told me they were three different flavors. I was delighted and thought I could take them home for my daughter to enjoy. However, all three pastries looked the same, and I wondered how I could figure out which sesame flavor my daughter liked.
I wanted to ask them, but they were in a hurry to attend a friend's wedding banquet and were closing up shop. Anyway, they insisted I take these three egg yolk pastries with me.
夢見我在一個夜店,等待晚上的活動開始。因為我比較早到,我拿了一本雜誌,躺在沙發上看。
我感覺有人盯著我。我轉過頭,那女子綁著馬尾。我喊了一聲 "班長" (一個不再往來的朋友),但其實不是,是班長的朋友 Jessica。我準備起身和她打招呼,她直接走開,沒有要理我的意思。現實生活中,自從我和班長不再往來後,她的朋友的確也和我保持距離。
Jessica 好像是去跟她們的朋友說換地方,看來她們沒有想要看到我。其實我倒覺得大家要玩就分開玩,也不會怎麼樣。
後來場景變成我跟老公來到 Home Depot。老公想要買草皮來重整後院,我有點懶,覺得沒有必要。
本來我們要離開,但老公不死心,又跑回去問價錢。只是我們需要的量有點大,但現場庫存不夠,服務人員推薦我們買另一款草皮合併用。總之,我在夢裡幫老公和他們殺了個好價格。
接著場景又變成我在坐公車。我要到底站台北 101 大樓,想說瞇一下眼睛休息。再張開眼,發現公車怎麼離台北 101 越來越遠,變成往台北車站方向去。我就想說:「啊!可能是我剛剛睡過頭錯過站。公車已經到了底站,現在回頭開了。」
整個公車變得很多人,有一位太太站在我前方的縫隙邊。我想說讓她站一下,因為人實在很多。一方面還是懊惱,我本來都要到家了,現在又要跟著公車再繞一圈。
然後場景又變成我來到一家麵包店。有老闆跟老闆娘,還有他們的女兒,送給我三顆蛋黃酥。
他們跟我說是三種不同口味。我心裡很歡喜,想說可以拿回家給女兒吃。但三顆看起來都一樣,我要怎麼找出女兒喜歡的芝麻口味呢?
我想問他們,但他們要去參加朋友的喜宴,趕著打烊。反正就是要把這三顆蛋黃酥給我。
這個夢似乎反映了未解決的情感、個人界限和日常擔憂的混合體,將它們混合成可以以不同方式解釋的不同場景。這是一個可能的細分:
1. 夜店和老朋友
環境:夜店的環境暗示著社交,但你獨自一人閱讀,這可能象徵著你內省的天性,或等待社交生活中某件事開始的想法。
Jessica 和班長:看到一個被你誤認為是你的老朋友(班長)的人,可能表明對這段友誼的感情尚未解決。Jessica 在沒有打招呼的情況下走開,可能象徵著你和你的老朋友圈之間出現的距離和脫節。在現實生活中,他們的離開似乎與你在夢中感受到的情緒距離相呼應。
解釋:夜店場景可能反映了與過去的社會聯繫的孤立或脫離的感覺。你的反應——感覺分道揚鑣是可以的——表明你已經接受了這種改變,但這個夢強調了一些揮之不去的想法或對此的不適。
2. Home Depot 和後院
背景:Home Depot 是一家與裝修和家居專案相關的商店,象徵著致力於生活中實用的事物。
丈夫的堅持:你丈夫想要買草皮的願望和你的無意願,可能反映了現實生活中對家庭優先事項或努力的看法差異。他的堅持可能象徵著一種有人在推動你尚未完全投入的事情的感覺。
解釋:這部分可能代表需要平衡共同的責任,或在你們的關係中更好地溝通,特別是關於你不太熱衷的任務或決定。夢中你的談判技巧,顯示你是一個解決問題的人,即使不情願,也會找到實際的解決方案。
3. 搭乘公車和誤站
背景:搭乘巴士通常代表你生活中正在經歷的一段旅程或過程。錯過站點可能象徵著你感覺自己沒有到達你想去的地方,或者你正在偏離路線。
擁擠的公共汽車和煩惱:擁擠的公共汽車和不得不再次繞圈的挫敗感,可能反映了因外部環境而不知所措或不便的感覺,甚至可能是對日常生活的挫敗感或感覺被困住了。
解釋:這種情況可能代表你生活中的不確定或沮喪的感覺——就像你試圖達到一個目標(家,象徵舒適和穩定),但感覺有些事情造成了延誤或障礙。它還可能表明你需要更多地控制自己的個人方向。
4. 麵包和蛋黃酥
背景:麵包店代表營養以及給予或接受某物的行為。糕點象徵著獎勵、禮物或機會。
三個糕點和不確定性:收到三個看似相同的糕點,但想找出女兒最喜歡哪一個,可能象徵著為所愛的人提供食物的願望,但不確定如何最好地滿足他們的需求或偏好。麵包店老闆匆忙離開,可能像徵著你感覺時間緊迫或對做出決定感到焦慮。
解析:夢的這一部分可能反映了對照顧的擔憂,無論是對你的家人還是對他人。糕點的相似性和你在選擇時的不確定性,可能象徵著了解如何為你關心的人提供“正確”的東西的挑戰,即使選項表面上看起來相同。
整體解讀
這個夢似乎是與社會脫節、日常生活中的實際擔憂,以及試圖滿足他人需求的感覺的混合體。
在情感上,它涉及過去的友誼以及你如何繼續前進,儘管並非沒有一些未解決的想法。
相對而言,它強調了與你丈夫的動態,你可能對某些項目或任務感到不願意,但仍然支持他。
就個人而言,搭乘公車意味著一種偏離軌道或不確定的感覺,而麵包店代表了你的養育本能和照顧家人的願望,即使不確定如何照顧。
這個夢可能會促使你反思你的人際關係(老朋友、你的丈夫)、你的生活方向,以及你作為照顧者或提供者的角色。