I had a dream where there was a woman who liked my husband, which made me extremely jealous.
When I got home, I saw my husband teaching our daughter Chinese, using the material that woman had provided. This made me even angrier.
I stormed outside, intending to calm myself down, but the more I thought about it, the angrier I became. Finally, unable to hold it in any longer, I confronted my husband and said, "Your Chinese is terrible, and now you're teaching it all wrong. That woman has it all wrong, and now you're messing up our daughter's foundation in Chinese."
I ended up saying a lot of harsh things. Then I stormed into my daughter's room and told her, "Don't learn from your dad; it's not good for you." But my daughter just looked at me defiantly and replied, "I want to learn this 'bad' Chinese, or I won't learn it at all." She clearly had no intention of learning Chinese from me, which made me even angrier.
I thought, I'm obviously right, so why won't they listen to me? They just keep doing whatever they want. I felt I was correcting them for their own good, but no one was listening to me, which infuriated me even more.
I couldn't help but shout, "Why should I care if your Chinese is good or not!" Then I woke up, still very angry from the dream.
夢見有個女人，喜歡我老公，讓我醋勁大發。
回到家，看到老公在教女兒中文，他拿那個女人講的內容來教女兒，這下我更生氣了。
我衝到門外，本來想讓自己平靜下來，但愈想愈生氣，後來實在忍無可忍，我就衝到老公面前直接跟他說「你那個三腳貓的中文，自己中文爛就算了，還亂教。那個女人根本就教錯了，還來弄壞女兒的中文基礎。」
反正我就是講了一堆很惡毒的話。然後我就衝進女兒房間，告訴她「妳不要學妳爸，對妳也沒有好處。」但女兒卻對我擺出一副不以為然的態度，回嘴說「我就是想要學這個爛中文，不然我就不學。」反正就是沒有要跟我學中文的意思，這下我就更生氣了。
我想說我明明是對的，為什麼他們都沒要聽我的，而且更加我行我素。我認為我糾正他們是為他們好，可是卻沒有人要聽我的。我更加生氣了。
我忍不住說「你們中文好不好，關我屁事！」然後我就醒了，火氣很大的夢。
Ending 1 - A Heartfelt Conversation
After the argument, you take a moment to reflect on the situation and decide to have an open, honest conversation with your husband and daughter. This leads to a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives and strengthens your bond as a family.
Ending 2 - A Compromise
You realize that forcing your preferences on your family may not be the best approach, and instead propose a compromise. Together, you find a different resource for learning Chinese that satisfies everyone's preferences and needs.
Ending 3 - Seeking Guidance
Feeling overwhelmed by the intensity of your emotions, you seek advice from a trusted friend or counselor. Their insights help you understand the root of your insecurities and develop healthier coping strategies.
Ending 4 - A New Perspective
Your husband and daughter surprise you by expressing their appreciation for your intentions and efforts in guiding them. This realization helps you see their actions in a new light and eases your fears about their commitment to your well-being.
Ending 5 - A Self-Discovery Journey
Motivated by the dream, you embark on a personal journey of self-discovery, addressing your insecurities and fears through self-reflection, personal growth, and, if necessary, therapy.
Each of these alternative endings offers a unique resolution to your dream, further exploring themes of vulnerability, control, and the complexities of family relationships within the context of addressing emotional challenges and insecurities.
Your dream reflects themes of insecurity, communication challenges, and the desire for control within the context of your family dynamics. Here's a brief interpretation of the key elements:
The Other Woman: The woman who likes your husband represents your insecurities and fears regarding potential threats to your relationship.
Teaching Chinese: Your husband teaching your daughter using the material provided by the other woman signifies your perceived inadequacy or lack of control in certain aspects of your family life.
Confrontation: Your outburst and the subsequent arguments illustrate the emotional tension and frustration resulting from feeling unheard or unacknowledged in your efforts to guide your family.
Your Daughter's Defiance: Your daughter's refusal to learn Chinese from you symbolizes the challenges parents face when their children assert their independence and make their own choices.
Overall, your dream seems to revolve around themes of vulnerability, control, and the complexities of family relationships. The dream highlights your deep-seated fears and frustrations, emphasizing the importance of effective communication and mutual understanding in addressing relationship challenges.