In my dream, I had a son who was discovered to have a talent for playing softball. I took him to meet a coach to see if we could develop his potential.
The coach wanted to get to know me and was willing to train my son. Under his guidance, my son gradually became more interested in the game, and I thought it was great.
I went to the field to watch them play. The team was full of tall, strong players, while my son was just a small kid. The players were confused and protested, wondering why the coach had brought such a small child onto the team, thinking he would make them lose.
However, the coach, with ulterior motives and wanting to impress me, insisted that my son join the team. He even put him in the catcher’s position, saying that because of his small size, it was a good place to start. After only a bit of training, my son was allowed to play. My son was thrilled, and of course, so was I!
After the game, the coach offered to provide extra training for my son after school and invited us to his home.
We arrived at the coach’s house, where we met his wife, his elderly father, and some of their friends. The coach’s wife was stunningly beautiful, almost otherworldly. I couldn’t stop staring at her. She was so striking, almost like an alien, with her darker skin that had a lizard-like quality. Despite this, I found her incredibly attractive.
Their marriage seemed a bit messy. Although the coach was married, there was a constant hint of flirtation in the way he spoke to me. Meanwhile, his wife had a boyfriend who was also there. I had the sense that the coach invited me to their home to make his wife jealous, and indeed, she seemed a bit envious. She was polite but clearly showing signs of jealousy in her words.
The coach’s wife invited us to come over for dinner more often, saying they would do their best to help my son reach his full potential.
At that moment, I couldn’t help but wonder, “Can we really eat the food they’re offering? What if it’s poisoned?”
Just then, the coach’s elderly father came out of the kitchen with a pot of lamb curry that looked like some kind of Burmese dish—it smelled and looked delicious!
We finished the entire pot in no time. I saw the coach’s father tilt the pot to get the last drops of the curry sauce out. The coach’s wife looked a bit embarrassed. I told her I completely understood—at our house, we wouldn’t waste a single drop of lamb curry either. Even just a little bit of the sauce mixed with rice would taste amazing.
Then, the scene shifted back to the softball field. There were a lot of spectators watching the game. I picked up a ball and thought, "This ball is so big, it must be a softball, not a baseball."
At that moment, I noticed that the spectators all looked gray and dark, almost like aliens with a lizard-like appearance.
Then, I looked at my son and realized he also looked a bit like a lizard. I couldn’t help but think, “What if I’m a lizard person too?”
夢裡我有個兒子,被發掘出有打壘球的天賦。我帶著他去找教練,看看能不能開發他的潛能。
這個教練想要認識我,願意主動教我兒子打壘球。的確經過他的培訓下,我兒子好像逐漸培養出興趣來,我覺得很棒。
我到球場上看他們打球。整個球隊都是高頭大馬的球員,我兒子是小孩子,個頭又小。球員們抗議,也很不解,想說教練怎麼找個個頭這麼小的小孩進來幹嘛,這樣子他們會輸球。
可是因為教練別有用心,想要對我示好,堅持讓我兒子加入球隊,還把他放在捕手的位置,說因為他個子小,可以從接球開始。而且才一點點訓練,就讓他上場了。總之我兒子很開心,當然我也很開心啊!
比賽結束,教練說他願意在我兒子課後提供加強訓練,並邀請我們到他家。
我們來到教練家,看到教練的太太和老爸爸,還有他們的友人。教練的老婆看來非常的美艷,他的朋友也都很好。
我忍不住一直盯著教練的妻子看,她真的很美艷,美豔到有點像是外星人。因為她的皮膚顏色較深,有點像蜥蜴。總之我就是覺得她很美艷。
他們夫妻的感情有點亂。教練明明已婚,但和我的言語中一直有些曖昧。他太太也另外有個男友,而且也在旁邊。我有種感覺,教練找我到他們家,好像是想要氣他老婆,而他老婆的確看來有點醋意。一方面招待我,一方面話語中醋意十足。
教練太太邀請我們有空常到他們家吃飯。吃飯時還一直誇讚我兒子,說他們一定會竭盡所能訓練我兒子,讓他把潛力完全發揮出來。
我那時候還有點狐疑:「他們夫妻請我們吃飯,可以吃嗎?會不會有毒?」
此時教練的老爸爸從廚房出來,他燉了一鍋有點像是緬甸料理的羊肉咖哩,看來好好吃喔!
我們一下子把整鍋吃光光。我看到教練的老爸爸還把鍋子斜著放,要把鍋子裡最後剩下的湯汁全部滴出來。
教練太太覺得有點不好意思。我跟她說我完全懂老人家的行為。我們家也不會浪費任何一滴羊肉咖哩的湯汁。即使是一點點湯汁,拌飯都非常好吃。
然後場景又回到壘球場,現場很多觀眾都在看球賽。我手上拿起那顆壘球,想說這個球這麼大顆,應該是壘球,不是棒球。
然後這時候感覺所有觀眾看起來灰灰黑黑的,好像是外星人,有點像是蜥蜴的樣子。
然後我看我的兒子,他看起來其實也有點像蜥蜴。我不禁想:搞不好連我也是蜥蜴人呢!
這個夢似乎探討了各種主題,例如潛力、關係、隱藏的慾望和自我認同。以下是基於重點要素的可能解釋:
1. 你兒子的天賦與發展
發現潛力和教練的角色:夢境始於發現你的兒子擁有隱藏的才能,然後你積極尋找教練來幫助開發他的潛力。這可能代表了你對培養你自己、你的孩子或你身邊的人的潛力的渴望或擔憂。教練的參與可能象徵著你信任(或不確定)的導師或權威人物,可以幫助某人成長。
你兒子的身材矮小和受到反對:球隊中的球員因為你兒子的身材矮小而抗議他的加入,這象徵著當某人似乎「沒有準備好」或「太小」而無法處理任務時,其他人可能會提出懷疑或挑戰。教練的堅持可能反映了你自己想要突破這些限制或克服障礙的願望,特別是在個人成長方面。
2. 關係動態與隱藏的慾望
教練的調情和他的婚姻:教練儘管已婚卻仍然調情,可能象徵著誘惑、複雜的情感關係或壓抑的慾望。你可能正在探索關係中的忠誠、吸引力或複雜性的主題,無論是在你的生活中還是在你周圍的人中。
教練的妻子和她的嫉妒:妻子的美麗和蜥蜴般的外星人外表,可能代表著某種異國情調或奇怪的東西,你欣賞但又覺得超凡脫俗或遙不可及。她表現出的嫉妒,可能反映了你在人際關係或社交場合中感受到的競爭或不安全感。她自己的外遇使情況變得更加複雜,這表明關係中隱藏著並不總是可見的動態。
3. 外星人/蜥蜴意象
蜥蜴人與身分:到最後,當觀眾、你的兒子,甚至你自己都變成蜥蜴般的生物時,這個夢似乎觸及了「異類」或隱藏的、奇怪的身份的主題。它可能代表感覺格格不入或不確定自己的真實自我,就好像你(和周圍的人)戴著面具或隱藏自己的真實本性一樣。
外星人與不熟悉的人:夢中人的外星人特質,可能表明你或你的周圍環境的某些部分感覺陌生、不熟悉或與你認為的「正常」不同。這可能意味著孤立或轉變的感覺,你質疑自己和身邊人的身分。
4. 食物、信任與懷疑
咖哩羊肉和懷疑:用餐場景暗示了信任問題。你質疑食物是否安全,這可能反映出你對信任他人的不安全感,尤其是在情緒複雜或模糊的情況下。儘管你有懷疑,但分享這頓飯可能代表你願意與他人交往,即使存在一些潛在的緊張或懷疑。
5. 潛在的成長與實現
人才發展:培養兒子的潛力這一反覆出現的主題,也可能反映了你希望看到自己或身邊人的生活成長和充實的願望。教練的妻子讚揚你的兒子,並向你保證他們將幫助他充分發展,這一事實可能反映了你自己的希望,即其他人會認可和支持你在孩子或你自己身上看到的才能和潛力。
總體資訊:
這個夢境似乎圍繞著培養潛力和處理複雜的、可能不確定的情感之間的緊張關係。其中包括外部壓力或判斷(球員抗議你兒子的參與)、個人慾望(教練的調情),以及對信任和身份的不安全感(蜥蜴人)。這可能表明你在應對不熟悉的情感環境時,正在努力解決有關個人和關係成長的問題。
它還可能強調你在成長過程中需要信任——無論是對自己、孩子還是其他親人——同時保持對人際關係中隱藏的慾望和複雜性的認識。