I dreamed that my older brother Ivan had a small dog that looked like a bear but was actually a dog. Apparently, the dog was born with a condition, and it was a gift from a friend. It needed to be cared for very carefully.
Then, the scene shifted, and it was now my younger brother Adolf walking the dog. We were strolling along the sidewalks of Tianmu together. As we neared the bus stop, I saw my friend Sophie and her family walking nearby. I overheard them chatting, and Sophie was talking to her daughter about wanting a pet. Her daughter asked her very systematically, "Do you want a dog? If so, what specific traits are you looking for? Do you have a particular type or breed in mind?" She explained further, "Traits could mean big ears, long fur, or a certain color. If it's a specific breed, just say you want a Pekingese or a Spitz, something clear like that."
I thought Sophie’s daughter's method was so logical! For some reason, I used this example as an analogy for websites while explaining it to Adolf. I said that just like defining traits and breeds for picking a pet, we could use this approach to discuss website requirements with clients. In the dream, I explained this theory to Adolf very clearly.
At this point, the person beside me changed back to my older brother Ivan. I saw him on the bus while I was still on the ground below. I told Ivan, "If you don’t have time to take care of that disabled bear-dog, give it to me, and I’ll take care of it." Ivan then handed me a knotted plastic bag, and it seemed like the bear-dog was stuffed inside. I found this very strange and thought, "This is a living creature! Why would you stuff it into a plastic bag like this?"
In addition to the plastic bag, Ivan also gave me a silk scarf. Holding my baby daughter in my arms and carrying the bag with the bear-dog inside, I started walking toward the bus stop because there were seats where I could sit down.
The distance was quite far, but I kept walking and finally reached the bus stop. I sat down, opened the plastic bag, and noticed that the bear-dog didn’t seem to be moving.
I asked Ivan, "Is this bear-dog still alive?" Ivan gave me a bunch of odd explanations, saying the dog had a genetic disorder and wasn’t easy to keep alive. He mentioned waiting for the doctor’s report.
I asked again, "Is this bear-dog alive?" Ivan replied, "Yes, it’s alive, but survival is difficult."
Looking into the bear-dog’s wet eyes, I felt they looked lifeless. At that moment, I felt a bit terrified, as if I were looking at the body of a dead dog.
Suddenly, I remembered the silk scarf Ivan had given me—it seemed I had dropped it earlier and hadn’t picked it up. Holding my daughter, I started walking back to where the bus had stopped before.
As we walked, I talked to my daughter, but she just looked at me without saying a word. I asked her, "Why aren’t you talking to me?" She kept staring silently. I told her I wanted to take her on a trip, just like before when we used to talk and laugh together.
I kept talking to her, but she only stared at me without responding. I felt a bit sad and wondered why she didn’t feel close to me anymore.
Still holding her, I continued walking toward where the bus had stopped earlier, hoping to find the scarf. I asked her, "Do you remember where the scarf fell?" From her gaze, it seemed like she knew. I kept walking forward, determined to retrieve the silk scarf.
夢見大弟 Ivan 有一隻小狗，牠看起來像是小熊，但其實是一隻小狗。好像這狗狗有天生的疾病，是朋友送給他的狗，反正就是要很小心的呵護。
然後這時候變成是小弟 Adolf 帶著那隻狗，我們一起走在天母的人行道上。快要走到公車站時，我看到好友 Sophie 全家人在路上散步。我聽到他們在聊天，好像 Sophie 跟她女兒說想要養一隻小動物，然後她女兒就很有條理的問她：「你是想要養小狗嗎？那你想要養的小狗的生物特徵是什麼？有沒有特定是什麼樣子的狗，還是什麼品種的狗？」她女兒解釋說：「特定生物特徵像是大耳朵、長毛、顏色；如果是特定品種的話，就直接講是要北京狗或狐狸狗等等，類似這類的明確需求。」
我覺得 Sophie 女兒的這種方式，好有道理喔！不知道為什麼，我就用這個例子比喻成網站，和 Adolf 解釋。我說她用生物特徵和品種來確定挑選寵物的需求，我們也可以運用這方式，來跟客戶談網站需求。在夢裡我就是很明確的把這個理論講解給 Adolf 聽。
此時，我身邊的人又變成是大弟 Ivan。我看到他在公車上，我在公車下。我跟 Ivan 說：「你如果沒空照顧那隻殘疾的小熊狗的話，你給我，我來養。」然後 Ivan 就交給我一個打了結的塑膠袋，好像那隻小熊狗被他硬塞在袋子裡。我覺得很奇怪，心想：「這是一條活的生命耶！你為什麼把牠這樣子塞進塑膠袋裡？」
除了這個塑膠袋外，Ivan 還給了我一條絲巾。我手上抱著嬰兒版的女兒，提著袋子裡的小熊狗，想要走回公車站牌，因為那裡有座位，我可以坐下來。
距離有點遠，我走啊走，總算來到公車站牌。坐下來，打開塑膠袋，發現小熊狗好像沒在動。
我問 Ivan：「你這小熊狗還活著嗎？」Ivan 跟我講了一堆奇怪的理由，反正就是好像小熊狗有基因上的疾病，不容易存活。醫生說要做檢查，他在等醫生的檢查報告。
我再問一次：「你這小熊狗是活著的嗎？」Ivan 回說：「是啊！只是存活不容易。」
我看著小熊狗的眼睛，濕濕的，感覺眼神是死的。此時我心裡感到有點恐怖，毛毛的，感覺這像是一隻狗的屍體。
我突然想起剛剛那條絲巾，好像掉在先前的地上沒拿。我抱著女兒，慢慢走回之前公車停下的地方。
一路上我跟女兒講話，可是她只是看著我，不說一句話。我問她「妳為什麼都不跟我講話？」她還是靜靜地看著我。我跟她說我想帶她去旅行，我們像以前那樣子，一起快樂的聊天。
我繼續和女兒說話，她就盯著我看，但都沒有講話。我心裡有點難過，想說她怎麼跟我都不親了？
我抱著她繼續朝著先前公車停下的地方走啊走。我問女兒：「妳記得剛剛絲巾掉下來的地方嗎？」從女兒的眼神，好像意思是說她知道。我繼續往前走，想要找回那條絲巾。
這個夢境富含象徵意義，反映了複雜的情感、關係和生活狀況。以下是基於榮格心理學和個人成長主題的解釋：
1. 小熊狗
象徵意義：小熊狗是一種看似力量與脆弱的混合體，可能象徵著你生活中需要細心關注和照顧的事物。它可能代表一個感覺脆弱或沉重的專案、責任或關係。
狗的狀況：狗的遺傳疾病及其生存挑戰，可能反映出在培育重要事物方面的不足或恐懼，這可能與現實生活中未解決的問題或挑戰有關。
2. 家庭動態（Ivan 和 Adolf）：
Ivan：他對小熊狗的疏忽處理，可能反映了你對一個沒有充分認識到責任的重要性，或膚淺地對待情緒問題的人的看法。
Adolf：和你一起遛狗，可能象徵著合作或共同責任，可能暗示在你清醒的生活中，需要與某人進行更清晰的溝通或協調。
3. 與 Sophie 一家的相遇：
Sophie 女兒有系統的方法：這種分析需求和生物特徵的邏輯方法，可能反映了你在決策過程中，尋求清晰度和結構的一部分，特別是在工作或個人專案（例如網站設計或業務重建）中。
預測：你可能會欣賞她的清晰思路，並希望將這種邏輯性、系統性的方法，融入你自己的生活中。
4. 絲巾：
象徵意義：圍巾可以代表你暫時失去的有價值或安慰的東西。這可能是一種認同感、創意火花或情感支持。
找回它：你要找回它的決心，反映出你強烈渴望與過去有意義的事物重新建立聯繫。
5. 你沉默的女兒：
象徵意義：你的女兒可能象徵你或你內在的孩子更年輕、更脆弱的部分。她的沉默可能反映出你對過去或當前關係的疏離感或未解決的情緒。
渴望聯結：你渴望旅行並與她聊天，反映出你希望重新點燃失去的快樂、創造力或親密感。
6. 巴士及行程：
距離：步行回到公車站，可能象徵著返回舒適或理解的地方所需的挑戰或努力。
公車站：這可能代表生活中的暫停或過渡階段，你正在反思過去的選擇和未來的道路。
7. 死氣沉沉的小熊狗和恐懼：
情緒影響：死氣沉沉的小熊狗和你的恐懼感，可能會凸顯你對失去、失敗，或無法拯救重要事物的焦慮。
面對現實：抱著一具屍體的怪異感覺，可能象徵著對生命脆弱性。或清醒生活中某些努力的情感認知。
8. 總體主題：
責任與關懷：這個夢境反映了責任、養育，以及照顧脆弱事物的情感重量的主題。
失去與恢復：它強調了失去的痛苦和恢復珍貴物品的希望（以圍巾和歸來的旅程為象徵）。
溝通與連結：與女兒的互動，凸顯了情感親密與理解的重要性。
反思與整合：
這個夢境邀請你思考：
在你生活的某些方面，你是否感到負擔沉重，或不確定自己的培養和保護能力？
你是否需要找回失去的快樂感、創造力或連結感？
受到 Sophie 女兒的啟發，你如何採用更有條理、更有邏輯的方法，來應對當前的挑戰？
你可以採取哪些步驟，來與自己或他人進行更深層的重新連結？
這個夢境暗示了一條透過仔細關注你的情緒、人際關係和責任，來治癒和重新發現你的內在力量的道路。